Anything falling outside of the current, easily classified parameters is seen as a threat to society at large. The reaction to change is then viewed with a herd - or mob - mentality, which is panic without understanding and can be extremely dangerous ground for anyone on the upward curve of independent thought and expression. Some of the greatest minds in history refused the status quo, and in doing so revolutionized the way we live today.. The known classes are comfortable and familiar. As humans, we take solace in that which is familiar, yet nature teaches us that the only thing that is constant is change itself. We often resist, and at the same time echo empty sayings like, "Change is good." The pundits say, "If things change too rapidly, there will be chaos." Despite the so-called wisdom of the seemingly wise, science has now revealed that the universe and the world in which we live, right down to the molecular level, exist in chaos. The real irony in the midst of this classification debacle is that people in a particular group who may not fall into the current accepted structure are almost always seeking one simple thing, and that is this: to follow the desires of their hearts. Acceptance. Independent thought. Individual expression. That is what truly reveals the beauty inside of us as human beings and thus reflects the beauty of nature.
Independent thinkers wish to be recognized for the unique individuals that they are, rather than to be smothered by the labels thrust upon them through ignorance. These are the only people who are really and truly free. Some may say that you can never truly defy classification, because in doing so you just throw yourself into another class. True, but by making the effort to break free and change, you are exercising your free will, and that is where the magic is. We wonder why children rebel against their parents. We echo sayings like, "Be yourself" and "Follow your heart." Yet when someone attempts to grasp something original and forward-thinking, we often quickly recoil and attempt to tone their ideas down, because we feel safer within the familiar. Kate Bornstein said it best in Gender Outlaw which I'll quote roughly here: "When you meet someone, wouldn't it be nice, instead of asking, 'What do you do?' to ask, 'Who are you?'" The fact that we always ask the former, rather than the latter, is indicative of the trap of the classification system in which we currently live. Do you know what your true desires are, or do you only desire that which you are told you should want? Think for yourself. Be true to yourself. Know yourself. If you can't be true to yourself, how can you really expect to be true to others? The truth will really set you free. |